We often assume we know what the other person was intending to do ‘to
us’. The only thing we really know is the reaction we had to the other person’s behavior.
Recognize that they may not have ‘meant’ to disrespect (or hurt, or
ignore or control) you. Also recognize that if you are the perpetrator,
just because your motive was innocent, that doesn’t negate the feelings
the other person experienced.
Tuesday, 21 October 2014
Monday, 20 October 2014
Life according to “Woody”
Humour is indeed the best medicine
there is whenever you are. I mean anyone can pay good money to listen
to a comedian just to make you wet your pants after laughing so hard.
Despite of what’s been happening, and to those who has gone though the
ordeal, it’s better to just laugh while facing the troubles with a clear
mind than anger with a clouded vision.
1. “Money is better than poverty, if only for financial reasons.” It sounds good to me, I mean the practicality of all things does involve money but it doesn’t have to take an arm and a leg to get it.
Friday, 17 October 2014
Be the Chooser, Not a Victim!
Being The Chooser means taking initiative for your outcomes: Firstly you are in
charge of creating what you want in life. You do not restrict yourself
to what or who chooses you.
Secondly, You are never stuck! You always have choices, even if you don’t know what your choices are. Don’t allow impulse or lack of information to result in a poor choice.
Secondly, You are never stuck! You always have choices, even if you don’t know what your choices are. Don’t allow impulse or lack of information to result in a poor choice.
Thursday, 16 October 2014
Make your Mark! Part Three
It is by giving of ourselves that we truly realize our worth and create a legacy for ourselves and for others.
It was a move that ultimately saved my business. I had to cut staff to bare bones and return to a revolving door of free interns every ninety days. Frustrating, but affordable. And while it has taken the last four years, we are back solidly and I am now reinventing myself again.
It was a move that ultimately saved my business. I had to cut staff to bare bones and return to a revolving door of free interns every ninety days. Frustrating, but affordable. And while it has taken the last four years, we are back solidly and I am now reinventing myself again.
Wednesday, 15 October 2014
Make your Mark! Part Two
Life is about choices and each of us is the reflection of the choices we have made to date. We can remain as we have chosen or make new choices and change our direction and our reality.
It was time for a change. I knew that my mother and great-grandfather and even my godmother had all lived their passions, and that life was too short not to go in the direction of my dreams. So I quit. I’d never quit a job before, and it was an amazing relief. I took three months off to think about my next step, and I decided to return to school for interior design in Birmingham, Alabama where I had worked previously. I already had a four-year degree and wanted the shortest, most direct route to my new career. I knew Birmingham had a low cost of living that would enable me to focus on school for six months before needing to combine that with a full-time job. I did it, and it worked!
The Lesson: Life is about risk, both known (calculated) and unknown. If we knew it all, we would have no opportunities for growth and surprise. Change your definition of risk to opportunity.
It was time for a change. I knew that my mother and great-grandfather and even my godmother had all lived their passions, and that life was too short not to go in the direction of my dreams. So I quit. I’d never quit a job before, and it was an amazing relief. I took three months off to think about my next step, and I decided to return to school for interior design in Birmingham, Alabama where I had worked previously. I already had a four-year degree and wanted the shortest, most direct route to my new career. I knew Birmingham had a low cost of living that would enable me to focus on school for six months before needing to combine that with a full-time job. I did it, and it worked!
The Lesson: Life is about risk, both known (calculated) and unknown. If we knew it all, we would have no opportunities for growth and surprise. Change your definition of risk to opportunity.
Tuesday, 14 October 2014
Make your Mark! Part One
Timing is
everything, and when we are ready opportunities will appear,
sometimes we have to allow the time to be ready.
Labels:
life lessons,
motivation,
self improvement
Location:
London, UK
Thursday, 9 October 2014
Choose to Decide, Decide to Choose!
Choose… decide…
and believe that you are choosing the best option. Be ready to face
its consequences: good and bad.
Labels:
achievement,
Brain Performance,
decisions,
determination,
Dream,
positive,
positive success
Location:
London, UK
Wednesday, 8 October 2014
4 Steps from Worry to Peace!
Are you worrying?
Stop your thoughts for a moment. Listen to the sounds around you, pay
attention, and be present to this key moment.
Labels:
awareness,
peace of mind,
worry
Location:
London, UK
Tuesday, 7 October 2014
All Successful People Do This…And You Can Do It Too!
Success is not
dedicated for a certain category of lucky talented people and hence
anyone can become similar to those success gurus.
Labels:
dreams,
mentors,
principles,
strategy,
success
Location:
London, UK
Monday, 6 October 2014
The Aurelius Attitude!
Your attitude
determines your altitude – in business and in life. You can’t
change someone else’s attitude for them.
Labels:
altitude,
attitude,
leader,
mental attitude,
positive,
Positive Attitude,
self-confident
Location:
London, UK
Saturday, 4 October 2014
This is the Way!
Success is more than
economic gains, titles, and degrees. Planning for success is about
mapping out all the aspects of your life.
Labels:
goal setting,
life mapping,
motivation,
outlook,
positive,
positive success,
success
Location:
London, UK
Friday, 3 October 2014
You Already have the Greatest Gift! ….Use It!
Don’t let life
pass you by unnoticed. Have a change of perspective and discover the
importance of living everyday as if it was your last.
Labels:
enjoy life,
Happiness,
life perspective,
live fully,
self care
Location:
London, UK
Thursday, 2 October 2014
The Problem is not the Problem!
Problems are a part
of life. They have accompanied us since birth, and will continue to
do so until the twilight of our lives.
Labels:
Problem,
problem solving,
problems
Location:
London, UK
Wednesday, 1 October 2014
How to Beef Up your Brain!
Mind is the most
complex and advanced computer in the world. It does what it is
programmed to do.
Labels:
adapting,
brain,
Brain Performance,
confidence,
mindset,
motivation,
outlook,
positive
Location:
London, UK
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